okay, lets start of with a new fresh post :) (well, of course it is marleena!)
what is CONFIDENCE? well, i bet, if you search up on dictionary.com or perhaps look into a dictionary, there will be a gazillion meanings of it. the appropriate meaning (to me) will be 'belief in oneself and one's powers or ability' .
In our life, i am sure there will be a person who will try to bring you down, saying things which don't make you feel so secure / confident of yourself. Let me tell you what, this people, THEY DON'T HAVE A LIFE. yes, 'cause what they do is "you're fat! damn!" or "eww! thats an ugly top you're wearing". These kind of people, firstly, they don't have a GOOD FRIEND, you gotta have good friends.you may think, 'what should i do to those people?' well, what i usually do is.. MOVE ON! yea, who are those people? who are they to say that i'm a fat btch or whatever? it doesn't matter if you're not popular. its good that you BE YOURSELF AND NOT OTHER PEOPLE YOU ARE TRYING TO BE! 'cause i'm gonna tell you, if you keep on doing that, YOU'LL LOSE OUT, A LOT! in the end, YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE and not other person. my advice is, stop looking at people a lot, yea, i mean it. STOP LOOKING AT PEOPLE A LOT. 'cause what you'll do is ... "wow! i wish i could have her body" or "OMG! i wish i could be like her!" no! you are not her! you are yourself, and love it! you'll die in that body, so LOVE IT! LOVE with whatever you are born with, live with it for the rest of you life! so, be it if you're not the best in whatever , you ARE THE BEST OF BEING YOURSELF AND THATS, A THUMBS UP (Y) people with a low self-esteem will suffer, i promise you that. 'cause what they will do is ' i wanna be skinny and now i'm fat. and im gonna HATE MYSELF FOR THAT. HATE HATE HATE' damn! you should get a friggin' life i'm telling you. if you don't like about yourself, FIX IT! for example : you think you gained weight over the past 2 months (which it really is.) fix it. don't go on a diet just because your friend tell you to do so, no! GOOD FRIENDS WILL SAY "HEY! LETS GO FOR A JOG." OR "LETS GO TO THE GYM :)" this means, they care a lot! i mean A LOT! but what if you're not that tall, well, live it. its in your genes. wear high heels or somethin' like that. so, remind yourself (i don't care! put a note on your forehead or write on your hand or put a reminder) ITS OKAY NOT TO BE PERFECT!
Saturday, June 26, 2010, 3:42 AM